We, all those couples who are committed into relationship, did a checklist for the compatibility with our own partners during last night BGR(Boy Girl Relationship) Seminar. While people were busy celebrating their Valentine's Day or the other so called 'Single Party', this is how we(single and in relationship) have our day in our church! A good way to avoid any 'unhealthy pre-marital activities' (In my thought). LOL~
So this is the checklists of mine and his:
What is/are your reason(s) for having life partner/marrying?
The following are some reasons people give for getting married. Which do you consider legitimate reasons, and which are not good reasons. Do the checklist and compare it with your partner to see how you agree/disagree
[Mine]
(NO) Parent expectation
(NO) To escape a troubled home
(YES) Someone who will make me happy
(NO) Financial security
(NO) Cannot live without the other person
(YES) Someone to care about me and take care of me
(NO) Age panic
(YES) To raise a family
(NO) My romantic ideal
(YES) My best friend and companion
(NO) Intellectual stimulation
(NO) For status or emigration
(NO) For legitimate sexual fulfillment
(NO) To have someone who will do what I say
( ) Other.....................
[His]
(NO) Parent expectation
(NO) To escape a troubled home
(YES) Someone who will make me happy
(NO) Financial security
(NO) Cannot live without the other person
(YES) Someone to care about me and take care of me
(NO) Age panic
(NO) To raise a family
(NO) My romantic ideal
(YES) My best friend and companion
(YES) Intellectual stimulation
(NO) For status or emigration
(NO) For legitimate sexual fulfillment
(NO) To have someone who will do what I say
( ) Other.....................
Some of the statements are kinda funny though! But there is no right or wrong...
So there it was! 93% compatible I can say! Now, what's yours?
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Nevaeh
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